- Edit (Dec 22, 2015):
What is written below is how I started this blog, unsure and afraid. But since then, I have come to terms, slowly but surely, that I am going to push towards male pronouns and using the name Jake/Jacob. Read on 🙂
Hey there My name is J.
“___ prefers to be referred to as “they” and not as “he” or “she” because when they wake up in the morning, they never know whether they will feel male, female or gender-neutral.”
Thats my pronoun preference ^ confusing right?
I have no idea what i’m doing right now or how to explain who I am because that’s really the point of this “adventure” and blog that i’m creating. So for now, I’m just a girl who might be a boy, but also doesn’t fit in to any of those categories. According to google, its called “non-binary”.
So hi. My name is J and I’m non-binary. I’m planning on starting with top-surgery, without hormones. I have no idea what my future holds in terms of transitioning, labeling myself as transgender, taking Testosterone, etc. All I know is that having this procedure and taking away what I’ve always hated will change so much about my world. I just want to share it with whoever is out there feeling the same lost and confused way.
You’re not alone.
ps. A few of these posts may be password protected to protect the privacy of a few individuals. Message me for the password and I will give it to you if it’s alright with them 🙂